Tuesday, November 3, 2009

I Heart Friends

I've got great friends. I mean, really amazing, we're going to grow old together, to die for friends. And although I've always known that, Sunday led me to believe it a bit more.

Sunday was my birthday. I'm officially 26. I wanted to do that "26 things to do before you turn 26" list, but life got in the way and I think I'm okay with that.

Anyway, after a long night of Halloween, Samir gave me my birthday presents.

Here's what he got me:
High Fidelity by Nick Hornby
The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
The Wordy Shipmates by Sarah Vowell

Now, you might be thinking "wait, don't you already own those?" Yes, I do, but those old copies have now been replaced (specifically the High Fidelity - it was a movie cover and we all know how I feel about those) because these new ones are so much better.

You see, authors never visit Florida. Ever. It's like there's an electric fence around the country that stops just short of Florida.

Knowing this, Samir found out when and where some of my favorite authors were touring. Clearly, he couldn't go see them, so he got some of our friends to go to the readings and get books autographed for me.

Seriously.

So...
My old roommate Sarah saw Hornby in Seattle
His sister saw Niffenegger in New York
My old roommate Shannon saw Vowell in San Francisco

I got three books. All three personalized and autographed, all three wishing me a happy birthday.

And that's where I was astounded. First, I was beyond excited about the books - especially the Vowell, considering she's my writing hero. Second, I couldn't believe Samir went through all the work for me. It was quite possibly one of the most meaningful and thoughtful gifts I'd ever received. Third, I couldn't believe my friends did that for me. With the exception of Shannon, the girls had never read their respective authors before. So, really, they were taking time off to see an author they weren't familiar with. They did that for me.


Moments like that are incredibly humbling. I worry about work and life and school so often that I forget how many people are really there for me. How far they'd go to make me smile. How they know that a simple book could be the perfect present.

I really do have amazing friends (and, yes, a darn good boyfriend). I know quite frankly that without them I wouldn't be the same Lauren. I wouldn't be complete. They make me happy.

I also know that I have to start preparing some damn good Christmas presents.

**Apparently Hornby asked who Lauren was, when autographing my book. She explained to him what Samir was doing, how he was having people around the country autograph books for me. He loved the idea! So, if when reading his next book you see mention of a beautiful curly haired girl getting a book autographed for a friend, think of us.

14 comments:

Herding Cats said...

So cute! No really.

Andhari said...

That is REALLY thoughtful of your boyfriend. So amazing! Even I got all gushy reading this, your best friends are awesome too..happy birthday, girlie!:) I'm sure it's already a memorable one..

walkingonsunshine18 said...

You got an autograph from Nick Hornby AND Audrey Niffenegger? I'm SO jealous!!! :)

Sandy Nawrot said...

That is a good man you have there. I got goosebumps even. He obviously "gets" you! Hang onto him and all those friends!

Melody said...

Happy belated birthday!
That's very sweet of your boyfriend and friends! :)

Mermanda said...

Okay, that's the sweetest gift I've ever heard of. You have yourself a keeper! Great job, Samir. It's those gifts that take the most planning and orchestration that show how much you care. :)

accidentallygraceful said...

Those are seriously terrific gifts, and the thought behind them is even more amazing.

Samir is awesome, but that's okay because you are too. :) Happy birthday woman!

SDC said...

That Samir is one quality individual.

Also, there's still time to do the 27 things before you're 27.

Ceri said...

Your man is amazing. That is soooo awesome :D :D . I hope you had a wonderful birthday. You really do have some fantastic friends.

Felicia said...

First of all, GREAT book selections!! And second of all, my friends freaking suck!! HAHA!

Kathleen said...

Wow, what a great gift...so thoughtful and wonderful. Sounds like you have a great group of friends and a fantastic "keeper" of a boyfriend!

Princess Pointful said...

That is pretty freaking awesome.
I love Nick Hornby, and I just finished the Time Traveler's Wife for the first time and bawled my eyes out.
(and I also hate books with movie covers. So much.)

fuchsiag said...

Nick Hornby AND Audrey Niffenegger!! *Insert jealousy*! Maybe one of my friends will read this and go get me a Neil Gaiman autograph lol. Sounds like you had a wonderful birthday and you have wonderful friends :)

Sam said...

wow, that is so sweet! what a great idea. thoughtful gifts like that are the best :)